“As I said, there is a lot to learn. Learning how to have money work for you is a lifetime study. Most people go to college for four years, and their education ends. I already know that my study of money will continue over my lifetime, simply because the more I find out, the more I find out I need to know. Most people never study the subject. They go to work, get their paycheck, balance their checkbooks, and that’s it. On top of that, they wonder why they have money problems. Then, they think that more money will solve the problem. Few realize that it’s their lack of financial education that is the problem. Continue reading
In one’s life, the best thing he/she can achieve is to gain knowledge and putting into action. Knowledge without action is like a body without a soul. Everyone strives to gain knowledge in different fields and branches. When one gets married the first thing that comes into mind is how to educate his child. Parents strive for their children so that they get a high-quality education. Most of the time parents focus on worldly education while forgetting religious education. Unfortunately, due to this they and their children are living a life of unhappiness, misery and distress. They only focus on the bread of body while forgetting food of the soul. How blessed are those who combined religious and worldly educations! Continue reading
This article is collection of Jireenya Badhaatu’s FB page May 2016 (half) posts
Change in your life is process not spontaneous. At once you can’t climb the peak. Everyday as you strive to change something, you pass from one stage of development to the next. There is no point where you can say I am perfect enough. Always you are invited for change. So take every chance to see change in your life. Don’t be hasty and hopeless. Step forward with hope and patience. When trouble happens, don’t be shocked and slide from change. Remember that when you encounter obstacle, it shows you that you are passing from one stage of change to the next. So see obstacles in this respect. Don’t be banned by obstacles from change. Strive with what you have. Insha Allah one day life takes its order. Continue reading
Enhancing Your Communication Skills
I take the following note from one of academic books in engineering field. In our life communication is very vital. We should develop art of communication so that we can be effective in our life Insha Allah. Read this note it may help you in your career communication. Continue reading
Peer friends are very influential. When we say ‘Peer friends’, we are saying that a friend whom we contact in every day activity. We may form friendship at the different level of our life. We start forming friendship at the environment. Froming friendship goes on upto end of our life. Today we discuss important friendship stage- that is university environment. When guys are far away from their family, either they destroy their life or reform it. The main factor of this is friendship world. They may not know how to deal with new enviroment of friendship. They may follow what commons do and then fall into destructive pitfall. They follow friend footstep and then trapped to satanic trap. We should be aware whom we are taking as a friend. Because friend may destroy our life or improve it. We should form friendships with pious and good character. In this age getting such people is very difficult. So how can we deal with those whose character are corrupted or addicted by different addiction? This is an important question. Let me list some important points to be noted when living with such people. Continue reading
Learning any language seems difficult for every mind. But if the person has key to open his mind for doing anything Insha Allah he can do it. So what is that key? The key is in our hands. Although the same key doesn’t open every mind, the very important that can open human mind is adjusting the it to be able to do that task. it is replacing the words which say ‘I can’t,It is very difficult,doing this is impossible,I don’t have time….’ with words ‘Insha Allah I can do,It is possible,what prevents me from doing this?,I have time….’. The mind does what we permit it like a computer program. If we give it wrong information,the mind gives us wrong result.
Yes Arabic is a difficult language. Actually, if we look at carefully, it is not as difficult as we think. To wipe out the notion of ‘DIFFICULT’ is to begin that task.
“Beginning is Winning” -Unknown Continue reading
Today when about love is mentioned every one becomes vigilant. Why? Actually It is human nature. Controlling love may not easy for everyone since not everyone has the same patience and perseverance. Between 18 and 22 ages the fire of desire and lust can be very intense for the youth. Imam Gazali said,”As age increases,desire and lust(Shahw) decrease. Because mind gets matured.” This intense fire can be extinguished through different ways. We discussed before ‘How to cntroll love’ both in English and Afan Oromo. The followings are as additional: Continue reading
According to Merriam Webster dictionary tension is a feeling of nervousness that makes you unable to relax.A feeling of nervousness, excitement, or fear that is created in a movie, book, etc.
Tension may arise from different factors. It may be from fear of exams, fear of enemies,fear of natural disasters and etc.Today Insha Allah we deal with how to cope tension of exams.
When the time of exams arrives, everyone feels tension, be less or more. Excessive tension may cause psychological problems even it may lead to suicide. So we should be in balance in this respect.To deal with tension:
May Allah protect us from kufr(disbelieve after belief). The following story presented as lessons how Satan decieves human beings in varies ways,step by step until he destroys hims.
There was a pious worshipper of the tribe of Israel. He was the most pious person of his time. During his time, there were three brothers who had a sister. She was a virgin. And they had no sister other than her. They were all about to leave the town to go to war. They did not know with whom to leave their sister and who they could trust to look after her. They all agreed to leave her with that pious person. They all trusted him. They went to him and asked if they could leave her with him. She would be in the building next to him until they return from the fighting. He refused their request and sought refuge in Allah from them and their sister. They persisted until he finally acquiesced. He said, Put her in the house next to my place of worship. So they put her in that house and they left, leaving her there. Continue reading
Any resource or graces we possess has not come by our only efforts and knowledge. Rather, they are given to us as a test from Almighty Allah. HE tests to make evident who is good doer or a wrongdoer through this grace. So every resource we own needs a careful usage and wise daily expenditure. We may obtain our monthly allowance either from our parents or government organization like scholarship. If we don’t use wisely, we will face different problems. Wise usage doesn’t mean save all what you receive for your future. Rather, it means using the money you receive without making extravagant. We see students around us whom 200 or 300USD is not enough for a month, although the daily basic expenses are very low. So how to use our monthly Allowance? Continue reading