Your ultimate goal is not to be beloved most insight of people rather let it be most beloved insight of Allah. When you are beloved insight of Allah, you will be beloved insight of people. But if you strive to gain pleasure of people rather than pleasure of Allah, you burden yourself with heavy load. Continue reading
Away from the ears of other girls, several girls sit in a corner in the school talking in confidence, and she sits among them listening. One of them said, “He loves me and says he wants to marry me,” and takes from her purse a gift that he gave her. Another girl talks about her friend’s jealousy and his protesting that she goes to the market by herself.
People, however, tend to overlook the truth because their hearts are not touched by its invigorating light. Hence, they remain preoccupied with petty concerns, lost in a perpetual maze. They are only awakened when faced with inevitable doom, looking at the suffering that awaits them and enduring a humiliatingly and strong reproach: Continue reading
“ كُنْ فِي الدُّنْيَا كَأَنَّكَ غَرِيبٌ، أَوْ عَابِرُ سَبِيلٍ ”
`Abdullah bin `Umar said, “Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) took hold of my shoulder and said, ‘Be in this world as if you were a stranger or a traveler.” The sub-narrator added: Ibn `Umar used to say, “If you survive till the evening, do not expect to be alive in the morning, and if you survive till the morning, do not expect to be alive in the evening, and take from your health for your sickness, and (take) from your life for your death.” (Sahih Al-Bukhaari) Continue reading
While finding solutions for love sickness, you may face different hardships along the way. You may feel sorrow, inner burning, yearning, anguish, depression, sleeplessness and etc. The best solutions for the person who is undergoing love sickness are to remember Allah (Zikrullah) much, being busy with good deeds, seeking Islamic knowledge, remembering life’s goals , if possible getting married, fasting and staying from looking haram things. When you repeat some zikr on your tongue, your heart gets serenity, tranquility and calm. But when you remember that person, what you get are sorrow, inner burning, confusion, anguish, sleeplessness and etc. Yes of course, it is out of your capacity to resist remembering that person completely. What you should do are being patient and making du’aa not to fall into haraam things. Patience converts bitter to sweet. “O Allah protect us as You have protected Your chosen servants from sheytan (Satan).” Continue reading