In the name of Allah, the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful.
Women are the respected and source of human beings. For centuries they had been carrying stones of oppression over their shoulders. Even they had been buried alive in the different parts of the world. It is not important to list their suffers here unless it’s lengthening the topic. It is obvious for most of us.
Yes o sister you’re a respected human being. Allah has respected you by lifting from underground. No one has the right to undermine you unless you undermine yourself. It is this age women begin to bear previous oppression by changing its form. They are being used as material.
O sister don’t let media deceive you .
You’ve the power of thinking, being writer, author, poet,doctor and etc. No one takes you over these gifts except Allah. Aisha (RA) was among the great scholars of human beings.
Today Every one wants to use you. After his subject had fulfilled, he don’t know where you are, in what conditions you are.
Through social media he deceives you. While you are posting your photographs, he spills sweety words in comment box which deceive you. You are an important human who builds society, community, country, and world. You are bearing great responsibilities on your shoulder. So do you have time which every one plays to you? Think! You are great human being who is preparing for taking over these great responsibilities.
Don’t be surprised by his work on social media. You are not a person who easily deceived by such ordinary things, are you? You are a thinker. Be careful.
Of course it is human nature to fall in love. But it’s possible to control with help of Allah. Imam Gazali(Ra) present four ways to control it.
1. Decreasing taking in of sweety foods and drinks. These increase human desire as kerosene increases fire to spread.
2. Lowering gaze and refrain from passing its limit. I mean having unnecessary speeches with opposite sex and etc..
3. If it’s possible get married. If not, fasting is way to decrease its effects.
4. Increasing religious motives(din teşvikçisi) than Satanic motives(şeytan teşvikçisi). Satanic motives like media. Increasing religious commitment like learning knowledge, praying on time and etc.
Imam Gazali said that if Satan gets in one’s heart, he breeds there. Unless this person changes his attitude, Satan continues breeding and breeding more babies and makes his heart permanent home. He directs, as he wants.
So it’s important to give attention to knowledge. Our only stick by which we can hit Satan is knowledge. Due to this Satan has opened thousand doors to drag us from knowledge. This pain of love wouldn’t last forever be patient by hoping great reward from Almighty Allah.
Yes o my sister you can achieve your goals. From contemporary women I am surprised at those who translated Holy Qur’an to English in very smooth, easy, accurate and understandable ways. These are Americans who converted to ISLAM. Their translation is well known and used worldwide “Sahih International Qur’an” to read more about them click here: http://www.saheehinternational.com
Yes you are bearer of world’s globe. You don’t have time to be deceived by ordinary things, do you have? If you want to be a writer ,you can open your own blog and write there. One time you read and other time you think next time you write. So you haven’t time to go along with time wasters. Your time is being managed; your mind is being in tranquility and peace; your tomorrow will be happiness with permission of Allah. Don’t fear people’s criticisms
Don’t be hopeless!! ….
Until we meet by other article may peace and blessing of Allah be upon all of you